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  • Abraham’s Sacrifice

    Abraham’s Sacrifice

    “Yet Abraham himself came from a troubled family – his father, who had abandoned the true worship of God, tried to have Abraham sacrificed to false gods.”

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    And you thought your parents were bad. They ever try to sacrifice you to false gods? 

    When I read that above quote, I thought about something I’d never connected in my mind before.  

    The story of Abraham almost sacrificing his son Isaac is a well-known biblical story of true faith. What I’d never connected with this, though, was the almost sacrifice of Abraham by his father many years prior. 

    There’s a lot to unravel there. 

    What occurred to me was this: Not only was this an unbearably difficult test Abraham was given; to sacrifice and kill his most precious, only son. It also, likely, spurred up painful memories of when Abraham’s father offered him as a sacrifice. (If all things are a type and a shadow of greater things, and Abraham represents God in sacrificing His only begotten son, what does this say about God?) 

    In that moment, with the added guilt and pain of losing his precious son, did Abraham also wonder about the damage he was causing his son? If by some miracle Isaac surived, how would he feel about almost being sacrificed? Abraham went through the same with his father.

    Another way to think about this – Abraham’s father is demonized for his part in almost sacrificing his son. Abraham is revered for his almost role in sacrificing his son. What is the difference? Well, the difference, I assume, is the intent, the heart, and the being to whom the sacrifice was being offered. 

    But how, in that moment, did Abraham have such faith, such trust, such knowledge, such understanding to know he was doing the right thing and sacrificing his son to the right God? Didn’t his father believe the same thing once upon a time? 

    This is one of those blog posts where I don’t have answers to my own questions. This is something I will have to ponder upon, research, and think more about.   

    If anyone has comments or can enlighten me, please do. 

  • Books in 2020

    Books in 2020

    This is a list of every book I read in 2020 and the order I ranked them in from favorite to least favorite.  I get something out of every book I read.  I learned long ago that if I allow myself to not finish one book, I won’t finish any.  For those reasons, when I start a book, I’m committed to finishing it.  I don’t care how dry or boring it may be.

    It was extremely difficult to rank these books.  For one, how do you rank nonfiction verse fiction?  Take a fictional John Grisham crime novel like The Last Juror and compare it to a nonfiction biography of the Prophet Joseph Smith for example.  How do you compare the two?  To avoid overthinking it I simply went through my list of books read and from what I remembered, put each on the list.  Every book’s placement on the list is from my initial remembering of how much I *enjoyed reading it.

                    *enjoyed for me is going to be vastly different from most people.  Precious Truths Restored, which was a top five favorite book of the year for me, is there because I learned so much from it and have referred to it constantly throughout the year since I finished it.  I doubt the average person would even get through it.  I loved it.

    I included a one sentence thought about each book.  This proved difficult because I could say so much about every book.  To get around the one sentence rule, I used many commas and run-on sentences. My list, my rules.

    I enjoyed all these books because they each taught me something. That’s the great thing about books.  Here’s my list:

    1. The First 2000 Years by Cleon Skousen
      • When I told a church-going friend I finished this book he looked at me incredulously, I guess my taste in books is unique.
    2. *A Case for the Book of Mormon by Tad R. Callister
      • This book will forever be my reference for a scholarly defense of the Book of Mormon.
    3. *The Mourning Dove by Larry Barkdull
      • I made Beth read this, super short, super memorable, loved this book.
    4. Tools of Titans by Tim Ferriss
      • I gained so much from this book, almost every one of the nearly 800 pages was marked, made me a Tim Ferriss fan for life. 
    5. The Joseph Smith Translation Precious Truths Restored by W. Jeffrey Marsh
      • Helped me tremendously in understanding the dangers of the different translations of the Bible, appreciating the Joseph Smith Translation of the Bible, and understanding how we have the various Bibles we have today.
    6. Bridging the Divide: The Continuing Conversation Between a Mormon and an Evangelical by Gregory C. V. Johnson and Robert L. Millet
      • Inspirational book of two people from different faiths finding joy in a discussion spanning many years that brings them both closer to God, reminded me of a relationship I have with a friend I enjoy discussing scripture with.
    7. *Best Loved Stories of the LDS People Vol 3 compiled by Jay A. Parry, Linda Ririe Gundry, Jack M. Lyon
      • The reason this ranked so high among so many other church history-esc books is I felt like I enjoyed a majority of the short stories, I gave it to my sister to read and she also enjoyed it.
    8. The Third Thousand Years by W. Cleon Skousen
      • This was the sequel to my favorite book of the year, it’s lower on the list because I feel like we generally know more about the third thousand years, so I felt like I got less out of it personally, still great though.
    9. *Among the Shoshones by Elijah Nicholas Wilson
      • Given to my sister-in-law to read, amazingly simple read that repeatedly had me saying out loud, “What the heck?”
    10. The Forerunners by Mark E. Petersen
      • This did a great job of explaining Joseph Smith’s role in the restoration and went into some detail about the pattern of forerunners being sent by God to start a great work on earth, John the Baptist and Joseph Smith being the most famous examples. 
    11. Return from Tomorrow by George G. Ritchie with Elizabeth Sherrill
      • One of the first ever Near-Death Experience books written, NDE books have a special place in my heart as it was an NDE book that helped me come back to church.
    12. The Red Record by David McCutchen
      • This was fascinating, it took legends of an ancient civilization you’ve never heard of, used oral records to go back thousands of years depicting their first legends of crossing an icy bridge to come to what would be the northern part of North America.
    13. And the Moon Shall Turn to Blood by Anthony E. Larson
      • This series of books blew my mind and led me to discussing it with people that didn’t have any interest discussing the topic, this fact instantly gets it higher on the list.
    14. And the Earth Shall Reel to and Fro by Anthony E. Larson
      • Part two to the above book, grouped the trilogy together on my list, these books use catastrophism as a basis of belief about what happened in the history of the world and what will happen in the future.
    15. And There Shall be a New Heaven and a New Earth by Anthony E. Larson
      • Part three of the trilogy, I enjoyed the first one the most and was slightly less interested as I got to the third book, but they were kind of like one book in three parts.
    16. All I need to Know I learned in Kindergarten by Robert Fulghum
      • A collection of short stories that were all extremely entertaining, quick and easy read.
    17. The Glory of the Sun by Sterling W. Sill
      • I love short anecdotes or stories which is why this is just below All I need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten because that’s one of the best books I’ve read that does that, this one did a good job as well on more spiritual and deep topics. 
    18. At Peace in the Light by Dannion Brinkley with Paul Perry
      • Another near-death experience book, I really want to read Dannion Brinkley’s first book Saved by the Light now.
    19. 2012 The War for Souls by Whitley Strieber
      • Awesomely creative book, so good I read it twice, no really, it wasn’t until the end that I realized I’d read 90% of the book years ago and never finished.
    20. How Money Works by Steve Siebold and Tom Mathews
      • A gift to me, I think this book advanced my knowledge of how money works ten fold, this should be required reading in high school.
    21. The Last Juror by John Grisham
      • Some authors have mastered how to get their readers to keep flipping pages no matter what, John Grisham is one of those writers.
    22. The Life Beyond by Joseph Fielding McConkie and Robert L. Millet
      • This book uses modern revelation to answer questions about what happens when we die, I’m amazed the world doesn’t flock to a book that answers the most important question in this life.
    23. Behold the Fig Tree by Roger K. Young
      • Any book that prepares me for what to expect leading up to the Millennium jumps up the list, see #13-15 for other examples.
    24. The Shack by William P. Young
      • Book turned popular motion picture, I may have liked the movie even more.
    25. Mama’s Boarding House by John D. Fitzgerald
      • A fictional account of an early settled western town, gun slinging stories have always fascinated me.
    26. Silent Courage by George P. Lee
      • A really good book was tainted when I learned what became of George P. Lee, was interesting reading about the life in a culture completely unique from my own.
    27. Millionaire Mind by Thomas J. Stanley
      • My only complaint about this book was the repetitiveness of points, though I still got a lot from it.
    28. They Knew the Prophet compiled by Hyrum L Andrus and Helen Mae Andrus
      • First-hand accounts about the prophet Joseph Smith from those who knew him.
    29. From Every Nation by Derin Head Rodriguez
      • Awesome book about the first foreign general authorities, amazing to see the distinct similarities a bunch of men from all over the world had that led to their growth in faith and devotion to Jesus Christ.
    30. How to Read the Constitution and Why by Kim Wehle
      • Should be required reading in any school, important for American students to understand the constitution better, especially now.
    31. Unlimited Access by Gary Aldrich
      • This book was interesting, an honest look from an FBI agent on the security of the white house while he was in charge of security at the white house.
    32. When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi
      • A really neat look at life from someone who was experiencing his own mortality.
    33. Paul’s Life and Letters by Sidney B. Sperry
      • Made me understand the sacrifice of the Apostle Paul in a deeper way.
    34. The Boy who Became a Prophet by Mabel Harmer
      • Ranked on the lower end because I don’t remember a ton from it, though any book on Joseph Smith has proved rewarding.
    35. In the Company of Prophets by D. Arthur Haycock
      • An interesting view on modern-day prophets from the perspective of someone who knew them as well as anyone.
    36. Making Sense of Suffering by Peter Kreeft
      • Like #47 The Problem of Pain, except more at my reading level.
    37. It was on Fire when I sat on it by Robert Fulghum
      • Didn’t like nearly as much as #16, but still enjoyed a lot.
    38. *Translating the Anthon Transcript by Stan and Polly Johnson
      • Lowered due to the chance the information in the book wasn’t fully accurate/true, I very much enjoyed learning about this though, and gave to a friend to read.
    39. Zion Seeking the City of Enoch by Larry Barkdull
      • Larry Barkdull also wrote one of my favorite books of the year (#3), this was an awesome, fictional account of someone trying to join Enoch in the beginning stages of starting his perfected society. 
    40. Frontiers of Being by Duncan B. Blewett
      • Extremely deep and dense, some parts difficult to get through, used some of what I read in this book when officiating my sister’s wedding, fun fact, looked it up online and there’s a “new” copy for sale for $1,008.00.
    41. Valley of Sorrow by Alexander B. Morrison
      • Great book, taught me a lot, not a topic I know much about or am passionate about but definitely learned a lot and opened my mind to some different views on mental health.
    42. Glimpses Beyond Death’s Door by Brent Top
      • I think I struggled with feeling like I was reading an analysis of a bunch of other books that I actually wanted to read, this was surprising given my love for the topic, see #7 and #18.
    43. A witness and a Warning: Modern Day Prophet Testifies of the Book of Mormon by Ezra Taft Benson.
      • Since I already know the Book of Mormon is true this found me nodding my head in agreement throughout.
    44. *LeGrand Richards: Beloved Apostle by Lucile Christenson Tate
      • Gave to my brother to read, it’s inspiring to read about the life of someone with such spectacular faith. 
    45. The Temple: Where Heaven Meets Earth by Truman G. Madsen
      • Classic book teaching the importance of the temple.
    46. Standing for Something by Gordon B. Hinckley
      • Classic GBH.
    47. The Problem of Pain by C.S. Lewis
      • Was really excited for this book, quickly realized I wasn’t intellectually ready to read a philosophical book by C.S. Lewis.
    48. Driven from Within by Michael Jordan
      • Interesting look at Michael Jordan looking simultaneously at his basketball career and how it fueled his creative side which created a billion dollar shoe industry.
    49. Does the Bible Contradict Itself? by W. Arndt
      • A defense of the Bible, didn’t love reading cover to cover which the author kind of said not to do, but will possibly be a book I refer back to often in my life.
    50. Statements on Communism and the Constitution of the United States by David O. McKay
      • Don’t remember a ton about this, I know it was short, I mostly remember thinking, “they used to be extremely afraid of communism.”
    51. Hidden Treasures from the Scriptures: The Battle is not yours it is the Lord’ by Alisha Geary
      • Had an interesting theme about how to get through adversity, short book.
    52. Are Your Standards Fences or Guardrails? By John Bytheway
      • While it’s sort of silly I even read this as I was approaching 30, and I ranked it low, I actually got a lot out of it, especially useful as I was becoming a parent and thinking about the standards I’d like Ivy to have.
    53. Messages of the First Presidency Vol. 6 compiled by James R. Clark
      • I enjoyed it but it was dry, and the average person is not going to get through this book.
    54. Emma’s Glory and Sacrifice by Gracia N. Jones
      • Great book but kind of felt like the attempt to tie it to Emma was a stretch throughout simply due to how few records we have left behind in her own words.
    55. Islam by John A. Williams
      • Just really difficult to read without more of a foundation in the faith, felt like I constantly didn’t know enough to keep up with what was being discussed.
    56. So Much of Life Ahead by Dean Hughes
      • This was an OK book, but it was part 6 in a series and I just decided to read it.
    57. The Plain Truth about Christmas by Herbert W. Armstrong
      • Can’t believe I read this, best thing about it was how short it was, entertaining though I guess.

    *Recommended or gave this book to someone to read.

    Additional reading:

    1. Plan of Salvation pamphlet (should be read by everyone once a year to be reminded of why we’re here).
    2. Book of Mormon
    3. Doctrine & Covenants (Through Section 99)
    4. Old Testament (Finished Ezekiel)
    5. Come Follow Me lesson each week
  • General Conference April 2020

    Remember the theme.  No coincidences.

    In October of 2018, less than two years ago, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints made a huge change; the switch to two-hour church with an emphasis on having a church and Christ-centered home.  How amazing that within two years we are in a position where we are unable to gather together at church.

    Coincidence?

    Because we haven’t been able to gather for church, you might think we are unable to partake of the sacrament.  How grateful I am to have the priesthood authority of God and to have a bishop with the keys to authorize me to bless the sacrament in my home.  I was given that opportunity the last two weeks, since we haven’t been able to go to church.

    I am so grateful for the organization of the church.  I’m grateful for the authority to bless and pass the sacrament in my home.  There is no confusion.  My bishop gives that authority and I can act on it.  Without my bishop’s permission, I could do no such thing, for Christ’s Church is a church of order.

    God is planning ahead for us and we are in His hands.  This becomes extraordinarily evident when we consider the revelations delivered to us by Russell M. Nelson in the last couple years.

    Let’s look at October 2019. God’s Prophet made an interesting statement at this time.  We should read it very closely given the current state of our world: 

    “Thus, the year 2020 will be designated as a bicentennial year. General conference next April will be different from any previous conference. In the next six months, I hope that every member and every family will prepare for a unique conference that will commemorate the very foundations of the restored gospel.”

    He continues,

    “Select your own questions. Design your own plan. Immerse yourself in the glorious light of the Restoration. As you do, general conference next April will be not only memorable; it will be unforgettable.”

    How prophetic.  As my former roommate (not a member of my church) noted, “I think that’s a weird coincidence.”  Yeah, I’d agree, if I believed in coincidences. 

    Our Prophet asked us to ponder two questions in order to make this upcoming general conference special.  His questions were:

    1. “How would my life be different if my knowledge gained from the Book of Mormon were suddenly taken away?”
    2. “How have the events that followed the First Vision made a difference for me and my loved ones?”

    I hope we are all considering these questions thoughtfully and prayerfully. 

    I don’t know what’s coming on April 4 and 5.  There may not be any grand announcement; there may be no huge changes.  I know it will be a great spiritual growing experience.  I know I will come out of this upcoming conference different than I am right now.

    And if a great announcement or great change comes, that is wonderful.  A living Prophet leads this Church.  I believe he is in close communication with Heavenly Father.  I know that the direction he sends us will be another step towards God’s great purposes.  I can’t wait. 

    Members of the Church:  I hope we don’t forget what our Prophet has said and I hope we’re listening.  Look at the world around us.  It is a critical time to be listening to the Prophet and heeding the advice he delivers to us.

    Here is President Nelson’s concluding statement from last conference:

    “Now in closing, I leave with you my love and my blessing that each of you may become happier and holier with each passing day. Meanwhile, please be assured that revelation continues in the Church and will continue under the Lord’s direction until ‘the purposes of God shall be accomplished, and the Great Jehovah shall say the work is done’.

    I so bless you, reaffirming my love for you, with my testimony that God lives! Jesus is the Christ! This is His Church and we are His people. In the sacred name of Jesus Christ, amen.”

    Leave a comment on how you’re preparing for conference.